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Friday, L pooped on the potty at school for the first time. Today, he peed on the potty at home for the first time. So.. apparently we're potty-training. That kinda snuck up on me unexpectedly.

Right now, he's sitting in a booster seat at the dining room table, and the water he's drinking with dinner is in a "big-boy" (read: no sippy, no straw, no lid) cup.

He goes to preschool, speaks in complete sentences (I've counted up to 10 words in a sentence, too!) - sometimes paragraphs!, knows his alphabet, how to spell his name, and how to count to 20.

In 4 months and a couple of days, he's going to be 3. Three!

I love this age (other than the indecision and occasional tantrums, particularly when he's bored), but I can't believe we've gotten here so fast. He's so big!


~ D ~
Buggie
"Oh my Donald" (Old McDonald)

"I'm 'tuck!"

"'tegosaurus starts with T!"

"Not so bad," is his token response to being asked how he's doing. (This, for some reason, cracks up his teacher!)

"I'm gone/lost!" (while hiding his face)

"I'm so glad to see you!"

"I don't need it!" (token response, often at high-volume, to anything he objects to)

"I don't like it."  (sometimes followed by, "Now I don't like it?" if we can convince him to take another few bites of food... and is often said even after he's polished off most of a plate-full.)

"Hello/Goodbye, Mr. Lizard!"

"I need to sit all my by myself."  (That's not a typo - there is an extra 'my' in it when he says it.)  

"It's going in around and around."  (or go-ening around and around)

liam
O: "What are you doing?"
L: "Just clean-upping."


O or D: "That's a fire hydrant."
L: "Hi, drant!"


And his favorite question of late: "Whats is doing?"


There are also new pics on our Flickr site, from our recent trip to NY.


(Oh, and for those who haven't heard yet - D will be starting a temp. job with the census bureau tomorrow, lasting for 8 weeks. And she applied to grad school this week, to U. of S. Florida's Library Science program.)
liam
L is all about the sentences these days.  Here are some of his favorites:

"I hear a _____!"  (dog, bird, airplane, car ... )
"Me got it."
"Me missed."
"You okay?" (usually used in prompting us to ask him this, if he falls down or something... but sometimes actually directed at us appropriately too)
"Kiss it better?"
"Bless you."
"K. has a white van."  (This began when our friend came to rescue the 3 of us when our car broke down, and now gets repeated fairly randomly.)
"Oh no!  Where'd L. go?" 
"Mommy/Daddy, where are you?"
"What are you doing?"
"It's dark out there."
"The sun is cold."  (he hasn't figured out 'bright' yet)


and one of our favorites, which just started today:

"Best ____ EVER!"  (made its debut in the shower, with "Best duck ever!")
liam
He is a happy and healthy little man, as we figured.  We have scripts to take to the lab for his lead screen (standard at this age) and children's allergy testing, which will include the suspected soy and strawberry allergies.  He didn't have to get any shots today because the doctor doesn't yet have his records to find out what he would need.

Unsurprisingly, he's taking after his daddy in terms of size.  He weighed in at 30 lbs., 11 oz. (between 75th-90th percentile) and is 35 1/2 inches tall (90th percentile).  So when everyone tells us how big he is... they aren't kidding!  :)

The doctor couldn't get over how smart he is, which just made O and I grin our faces off; we're just so proud of him.  :)

Oh and...

Nov. 10th, 2009 02:42 pm
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This is the link to Buggie's wishlist, for anyone who is interested.
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Click here for the favorites, or here for the entire collection!

Halloween

Oct. 31st, 2009 06:47 pm
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Just some shots of The Bear Family (mostly L) over our three Halloween expeditions: Boo at the Zoo last weekend, the UUCFM Halloween party last night, and trick or treating this afternoon.

L with his first piece of Halloween candy, at the zoo:


Playing piano at the church party:


The two of us, also at the party:


And after trick or treating today, with his two favorite treats (and let me just brag a little bit that my son's favorite treats of the day were an apple and a balloon-dinosaur, not any of the candy!):



Happy Halloween!
~ D ~
liam
(Sorry for those who are seeing this multiple times.  I am reposting here so that my family can see it as well.)

I can NOT believe we're at 22 months now. That number seems so small for how momentous it feels. I can't believe how he's grown and changed, and how much he grows and changes every single day. The last time I made a monthly update post (which admittedly was not last month, and may not have even been the month before...), I was listing the words and signs that he knew. I couldn't even begin to try to do that now. He talks and talks and talks. Just minutes ago, he came up to me with a piece of his shapes puzzle (the correct piece) and said, "parallelogram!" What?!

He also knows all the letters (and what words correspond with them in his letters puzzle) and numbers 1-9. (He doesn't quite get zero, referring instead to it as "o".) Sometimes he can count, as high as 6, but that's not consistent. He can identify all kinds of animals - I think he knew "rhinoceros" before he knew "dog." Also this week, he's learned to say his name, and knows that it starts with L.

His favorite things right now are his puzzles and books, balls, the water - especially at the beach, where he can play in the "booms," and Sesame Street. Oh, and climbing out of his new toddler bed, now that he's figured out that he can. He gets himself up from naps, and we have to put the baby gate up at night so that he doesn't get up in the morning and get himself into any kind of trouble before coming in to wake us up.

We go through phases of pickiness with foods, but now that he's more able to articulate what he wants (unless he is tired or otherwise cranky), it's easier to deal with than it was even a month or so ago. Favorites are macaroni & cheese, pasta, pizza, bagels, and various kinds of bread (homemade). His soy allergy seems to be fading too, though we haven't yet gotten him set up with allergy testing. We're working on that now.

He has a bunch of new teeth in the last month or so, too. Four, I think? Yeah. He's up to 14 now, and he only had 10 when we came down to Florida!

I am amazed by him, every single day.
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A few weeks ago, we were at Walgreens to get our seasonal flu shots, and the other man who was waiting there with us struck up a conversation - mostly with L. It turns out, he's a local fire commissioner. He told us who in the district to contact about getting L a tour of the firehouse. We'd actually intended to do it for Fire Prevention Week (which I wouldn't even know about if it weren't for FireMom, so thanks for that!) last week, but we didn't make it there until today.

Liam had an absolute blast, though! We told him we were going to see fire trucks, so he was very excited. Though I don't think he quite believed us when we walked in:


Once he got inside, though, and got to sit in an actual truck, he was thrilled!


He wanted to push all the buttons:


And try on the gear (or at least, the driver's sunglasses):


He got a hat of his own:


And even pretended to take an emergency call!



What an exciting day for a newly-22-month-old!

(More pictures, plus these in larger size here.)


~ D ~
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OK, so we still have blistering hot temperatures (it's going to be in the 90s on my birthday - I can't say I've experienced that very many times!), and there are no changing leaves. But we were/are determined to have some real autumn experiences nonetheless. We bought canned pumpkin this week to make pumpkin bread, and today we went to the park's Pumpkin Patch event.



Liam played with baby pumpkins:


and bounced in a bounce-house:



... while we stood nearby and watched:


And then we went on a hayride:


As you can see, we had a great time! :)

New bed

Sep. 21st, 2009 09:05 pm
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For those friends & family who haven't already seen this on Twitter and/or Facebook, L has a new bed! Daddy is putting him to bed in it even as I write this, in fact. He was very excited about it this afternoon when it'd been built, so we figured to try it out right away (though the pack & play is still set up as well, in case things go very badly tonight or in the coming nights).

Here are some pictures of getting it set up, and L exploring it for the first time. After he'd sat there for a bit, he asked for his blanket, so I went and got that (and his pillow and bears) from the pack & play, and "tucked him in," even though it was before dinner at this point. He made his cute little pretend-snore noises and pretended to go to sleep:



If only it were that easy to get him to go to sleep for real!


~ D ~
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Hi all. Posting this here because it's the easiest place to reach pretty much anyone who might be thinking about getting me a birthday present, all at once. If you weren't planning on doing anything, feel free to skip the rest of this post.

This year, all things considered, I'm wanting to keep it simple. Everything purchased while we're staying here is one more thing that needs to be moved. So instead, I'm asking for one of two things:
gift cards, or visits. Obviously visits are not going to be practical for everyone, but anyone who can... I'd love to see you! :)

As for gift cards, the best options are:

Old Navy
iTunes
Barnes & Noble
Amazon.com
Target


Hope all is well with everyone!


~ D ~

An update

Aug. 27th, 2009 09:03 am
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I never posted any kind of Buggie update this month, largely because I usually do it on (or around) the 13th, and that was the day we left Florida and he stayed behind with his Nana & Grappa. That, btw, went very well. He slept well for them (all but the very last night, when Nana had to sleep in his room with him), didn't throw any major tantrums, and was generally just a perfectly well-behaved little boy. :)

Since we've been all back together again, we've noticed him being in another development spurt. A lot of what he'd previously been signing is starting to move towards speaking. He's stringing together phrases now as well: "more cookie/bagel/puffs/etc." "up please," and the like. He also recognizes all 26 letters, and is pretty close to having the numbers down too.

Physically, he is now running all over the place (and getting into EVERYTHING!), and he LOVES the swimming pool. Swings and slides are also big favorites. He's been having a great time in Florida, and he LOVES Nana and Grappa. Unfortunately, they head back to Italy this evening, so we're spending today doing as much family stuff as we can squeeze in.


All told, Florida seems to be agreeing with all of us. The only downside at all is that we miss everyone in NY terribly - our family, our friends (who might as well be family), my chorus, and our cat. Last night, I got very homesick and sad, missing folks. So... if any of you want to visit (or move down here!), we'd love to see you! :) In the meantime, we'll try to keep updates on here semi-regularly.

Oh, and there are pictures on the photo site, from just before we left, to a few days ago.

Hope everyone is well! We all send our love!

In Florida

Aug. 18th, 2009 07:03 pm
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O & I arrived in FL, safe and sound, this afternoon.  We'd left L here with his Nana & Grappa while we flew back to Rochester, packed up our entire apartment (thanks go out to several of our friends for helping with this) and put most of it into storage (it took about 3 hours, all told).  The next morning, we began the long, three-day journey back down here by car.

Along the way, we stopped in Chapel Hill, NC, to visit the campus for UNC.  I managed to meet with a counselor in the MBA program and get a few questions answered. leaving me feeling very overwhelmed.  The plan had been to go from Chapel Hill to Gainesville... but we'd been delayed getting to NC in the first place, so we decided that didn't make a lot of sense.  So we missed out on seeing some friends, but we'll be planning a trip up that way in a few weeks to check out the Univ. of Florida.  

In any case, we're here now in Ft Myers.  Starting tomorrow, or early next week, we'll be figuring out our next move - school, work, etc. 


And hope not to have to travel very far for a while!  :)


~ D ~
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Just a quick announcement to let folks know how to reach us after we move. For the time being (until at least December when our contract ends), our cellphone #'s will remain the same. (The 585 #'s that most of you probably already have.)

If you don't have these numbers, or need our mailing address for any reason, drop us an e-mail. E-mail addresses are as follows:

dmsj75 @ gmail . com (Dawn)
ostjohn42 @ gmail . com (Oliver)
kolystar @ gmail . com (both)
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As things currently stand, we're leaving mid-August. We fly down to Ft. Myers on 8/11, drop off the first wave of stuff (and Buggie, who is going to stay down there with Nana & Grappa for a few days), then fly back to Rochester on 8/13. We'll be packing up the remainder of our stuff and putting most of it into storage locally, then taking the rest of what we need (and will fit into our car) and driving back down. We'll be leaving here on probably 8/16, to make the journey down.

Please comment if:

A. You are local and available to help us move things from our place into a UHaul, to take to the storage unit,

or

B. You are somewhere along our route and are going to want us to stop and have a meal with you (or even better, if you can offer crash space for one night, assuming you're in a logical stopping point - we will be planning to stop twice along the way).


It's going to be busybusybusy around here in the coming weeks, as we work on both packing/getting ready, and visiting with friends and family before we go. We're spending this weekend with my dad (for his bday), next weekend with my mom & her family (for Gramma's bday), and have another bday party for our friends' son the weekend before we leave. The weekdays will be full of packing, and trying to squeeze in some fun times for Buggie before we leave.

Phew!


~ D ~
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It's been a while since there was last a post on this blog, and a great deal has happened.

First and foremost, O lost his job two weeks ago. It appears that in the eyes of his former employer, getting sick twice in five months constitutes excessive absenteeism. There is probably more to the story (especially considering the state of the economy and its impact on revenues there), but it is unlikely we shall ever hear it.

Having no income, of course, also means that we will not in fact be buying the house. This, honestly, has been more a source of disappointment than the loss of the job. Mercifully, though, we got this news while there was still time to call it off, and not two months into the 30-year mortgage term.

We both decided early on to regard this as an opportunity rather than a loss, and to look ahead to the next chapter of our journey together. Rochester is no longer the tech-industry hub it once was, and for this and other reasons (including but not limited to the impending expiration of our apartment lease and the harshness of winter up here!) we have cast our eyes elsewhere. It's a big country, and the possibilities are many and varied.

The plan as it stands right now, then, is that we're going to Florida. O's family have a house down there, which will give us a place to stay while we get ourselves together, and possibly find work and a place to live down there. We are also very much interested in the Research Triangle area of North Carolina as an option, should Southwest Florida not pan out.

We're excited about this next step, and although we'll miss the friends we've made up here, it's time to make a change.



~ O ~

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Words:
C&Ps from previous lists, just to have them in the same place )
Apple, bubble, ball, up, cracker, bagel, yogurt, bum balm (heh), elbow, me (nee nee nee!), beep/ding (ning ning ning, always 3 times), la la la (if you ask him to sing), hand, hat, okay, yuck/yucky, hot, cookie, uh oh
(39, that I can think of anyway)

Animal noises: baa, moo (ooo!), oink (oh oh oh!), woof (oo oo oo!), grrrr (for lions and tigers), ssss (for snakes), neigh, quack
(if those count, it makes 47)

General report:
OMG is he picky about food these days! We have a terrible time getting vegetables into him, a lot of the time. We've taken to giving him a cup of V8 Fusion once a day because he loves that and it has veggies in it. Not ideal, but whatever works. He's also decided to be a vegetarian, it seems. Except hot dogs, apparently. He ate one of those (uncured, antibiotic-free, etc.) last night. Let me just tell you, it is NOT an easy job, feeding a picky toddler with a food allergy. But we get by. He's definitely eating enough, so we must be doing something right! :)

Sleep has gotten SO much better. In fact, he sleeps all night a lot of the time now. Not every night, but probably more than half of the time. The flip side of this, unfortunately, is that it's taking longer to get him to /go/ to sleep at night. But that's just been a few days, so we're waiting it out to see if it changes on its own. If not, we'll try something new.

He loves to be on the move, but he also loves TV (oh no!). We let him watch an episode of Sesame Street every day, if he asks for it. And he still watches his Baby Signing Time DVDs before bed at night. We're thinking of getting some of the regular Signing Time ones for variety, soon. Other than those times, and when we go for walks in his stroller, he's on the go ALL the time! You'd never know he was a late walker. :)

He loves building with blocks, reading books, listening to music, and playing with his new (to him) Little People sets (we have the house and the farm).

We're still nursing, generally twice a day, which means we've earned this:

He was nursing just once, at night. But then he decided to night-wean (via the first night he slept all night), so the "plan" got switched around. I probably could've just stopped nursing altogether at that point, and I considered it. But I really wanted to get to 18 months. Of course, now that it's a daytime thing again, he's asking for it more and more, so weaning may be more difficult. But we'll figure it out.

He's still a very happy, charming little boy. We can always tell something is wrong with him because his disposition totally changes. If he's suddenly in "brat" mode, or just generally less happy, we know he's not feeling well.

I can't believe he's a year and a half old already!
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Our offer was accepted.  Our closing date is set for August 21st!  (At least, that's what it says on our offer paperwork - I'm not sure what the chances are that that could change.)

Next step: schedule an inspection.  And hope this seller's lawyer is less of a schmuck than the lawyer for the last house we tried to buy.  :P



Eeeeeeeee!  We're buying a house!



~ D ~
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